Thursday, March 01, 2007

Ten of Swords

symbol- He must search for the perfect girl. She realizes she is desireable.

Meaning- realization


He decides to date one of his platonic girl friends. It seems kind of strange at first because he doesn't want to risk loosing her friendship. Still, he likes her and he would like to get to know her better.

He wants to find out if they could have a serious relationship together. While they have fun together, the relationship doesn't have the emotional spark or intensity he wants in a relationship.

It is like dating a sister or a cousin. It just doesn't feel right to get emotionally involved with her. This is very frustrating because he is selective about whom he wants to date and there are not too many girls around that are acceptable to him.

She is surprised when he asks her out and she is a little nervous too. She likes him and doesn't want to hurt him. She knows that she would like to date someone but he is more like a brother than a date.

The whole thing seems a little awkward and uncomfortable. She enjoys the dating but her feelings toward him are too relaxed and casual. It just doesn't have the spark she wants in a serious relationship.

They talk things over and realize they are not really interested in each other romantically. It is still important that they be friends and get together socially but that is all.

This is an important time for him because he begins to understand what kind of girl he is attracted to. He gains an ability to recognize girls that are more suitable to him personally. Someone he has things in common with and shared interests.

This is an important time for her because she realizes her male friends are attracted to her. They do think she is likable and special. It gives her renewed self-esteem and hope that she will find that special someone.

As she dates others they both learn how to have healthy relationships with each other. They get to know each other before they decide what they will do.

Male experience:

He begins to date some of his platonic friends. While he has a good time it just doesn't work out as he would like. It is like dating his sister. There is no spark.

He does learn what type of women he is attracted to and becomes more selective in whom he dates. He wants to date someone he is comfortable with but he wants spark and passion too. He maintains his platonic friendships.

Female experience:

She is a little nervous about dating her friend. She likes him but not in that way. He is like a brother to her. Still she decides to give it a try and see how it goes. It is strange. There is no spark or passion and the dating doesn't last long but the friendship remains.

This is an important time for her because she learns that someone she likes and respects as a friend is attracted to her. It is possible for her to have a healthy relationship with someone of the opposite sex. She realizes that she is desireable and that someday she might find mister right.



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